08.08.08 Kunyaza, the secret to female orgasm (Afrik/com)
Nsekuye
Bizimana is persuaded that Africa holds the key to female sexual
orgasm. His passion for African sexuality has led him to the study of
an ancestral sexual practice in his homeland, Rwanda, as well as
Burundi, Eastern parts of Democratic Republic of Congo as well as the
western parts of both Uganda and Tanzania. Having survived by virtue of
oral tradition, “Kunyaza” is said to be so effective that most women do
not only experience multiple orgasms but also ejaculation. Nsekuye
Bizimana gives a detailed account of Kunyaza with illustrations in his
book Le secret de l’amour à l’africaine published in Germany where he
is based and soon available in the United States. Nsekuya Bizimana,
also the head of a kunyaza research institute, hopes that his book will
shed more light on the “magical caress” around the world. Men have now
no excuse to escape the total satisfaction of their female partners,
70% of whom – according to research – do not attain orgasm only by
vaginal penetration.
Afrik.com : Tell us about kunyaza
Nsekuye Bizimana : The
method involves an intense stimulation of the woman’s sexual organ. The
man taps the internal area of his partner’s vagina with the tip of his
penis either with vertical or horizontal movements. The male partner
should concentrate on the clitoris area whilst tapping from left to
right. Should the tapping prove painful, the area should be lubricated
or wait until the vagina gets lubricated naturally. If the male partner
does this well, his female partner should e able to get an orgasm in
about five minutes.
Afrik.com : five minutes of « tapping », this should put some strain on the man’s wrist…
Nsekuye Bizimana : Both
partners may take turns. The female partner can expose the vestibule to
enable her male partner to access the most sensitive areas, including
the woman’s protate, located behind the G point [urinary meatus]. By
the way, it is more demanding for the man to perform cunnilingus than
kunyaza ! The nape and the jaws tire easily.
Afrik.com : You also claim that Kunyaza can prove effective on excised women…
Nsekuye Bizimana : In
most circumstances, only a small part of the female clitoris is
excised. The internal part is preserved, as well as the urinary meatus,
which is a very erogenous zone. So these women could be satisfied. We
have the tendency of thinking that they cannot be satisfied sexually,
whereas they can ! I have interviewed excised women who have confirmed
that the kunyaza method works for them.
Afrik.com : kunyaza is also effective in cases of erectile problems…
Nsekuye Bizimana : Men
suffering from mild erectile problems can still stimulate the woman’s
sexual organ. And also by virtue of tapping, the man’s penis could
stiffen and make penetration possible. I have come across several men
who have also confirmed the effectiveness of this method.
Afrik.com : You claim that kunyaza could become as popular as the French kiss ?
Nsekuye Bizimana : When i
was young, the French kiss was not very known. Only a few people
practised it. But in recent times, most Africans practice the French
kiss. About a hundred years ago, the French kiss was practised by a few
persons even in Europe. This is prove that a method which produces good
results spreads to the four corners of the earth. And as i am convinced
that kunyaza is a good method, it is my belief that it will spread.
With the release of the English edition next year (2009), more people
will try and appreciate it, while word of mouth will do the rest.
Kunyaza is also known and accepted in Namibia through an initial
contact with Ugandans.
Afrik.com : You indicated that your kunyaza workshops are mostly attended by Europeans. How do you explain this trend?
Nsekuye Bizimana : I do
not know exactly why Africans do not really participate in these
workshops, i can only speculate. In my opinion, from what i have
observed in Germany, many Africans are not interested in discussions
nor political conferences. They are, more often than not, rather found
at church praying. That is what i have observed. But i think that this
will change as many people have ordered the book since the release of
the French version.
Afrik.com : Any feedback from sex therapists since the release of your book ?
Nsekuye Bizimana : I am
awaiting reactions from sex therapists particularly since i compared
some of their recommended methods with kunyaza. Sex therapists have not
really made any headway in the area of female orgasm. I think my book
will help people more.
Afrik.com : What was your publisher’s reaction prior to the book’s publication ?
Nsekuye Bizimana : They
were impressed and found my advice very helpful. My publishers have
already published several books on sexuality, such as books from the
famous French therapist, Gérard Leleu. This is to say that they are
masters in the field.
Afrik.com : Besides kunyaza, do you know other effective African methods that could enhance female pleasure ?
Nsekuye Bizimana : No. If i did i would have written about it.
Afrik.com : Is your work feminist ?
Nsekuye Bizimana : It
does not advocate activism per se, but rather a problem, that of female
sexual satisfaction which i try to answer. I simply want women to
climax when they make love.
Afrik.com : You would
like to conduct a kunyaza study at the Institute for Sexology and
Sexual Medicine in Germany to prove the effectiveness of this method.
How do you plan to finance this project ?
Nsekuye Bizimana : An
example of research works given priority in Germany include sexual
diseases or psychological problems associated with paedophiles or
rapists. They do not really know sexual methods but they will get
there. It will take some time for the book to arouse general interest
there but i think the French will take an immediate liking to it. I
will therefore be looking forward to some financial support from the
French.
Interview conducted by Habibou Bangré and Translated by Theophilus O’donkor